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August 31, 2004

アンニュイとフェミニン

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ランチ途中で出会ったネコ

 台風も過ぎ去り天気がよくなったので、昔(中学時代)から愛用している「SMC PENTAX-A 50mm/F1.4」を*istDにつけて出社する。

 途中で何枚か撮ってみたが、デジカメにつけると1.5倍換算になることに体がついていかない。一度ファインダーを覗いた後に、「??」となり一歩後ずさる。という行動を毎回繰り返すことになった。慣れというのは恐いもので、頭では理解しているつもりでも、脊椎反射的に「いつもの行動」に出てしまうようだ。たまに国産車に乗ると、思わずワイパー全開で交差点を曲がってしまうのと一緒の部類である。

 ランチの途中で出会ったネコは、まだ子猫のようだが非常にアンニュイな雰囲気がカワイイ。見た瞬間に「あー、アンニュイだなぁ」と思ったのだが、この言葉のそもそもの意味は以下である。

アンニュイ 【(フランス)ennui】
[名・形動]ものうい感じであること。また、そのさま。倦怠(けんたい)。「―な午後」
【大辞泉】

女性誌などではこれと共に「フェミニン」という単語も登場することが多い気がする。「この秋はフェミニン&シックで恋愛力アップ! アンニュイなクラシック・スタイルで、アーバンな大人の女に!」とか。そういう雑誌に登場するくらいなので、ある意味「オンナのあこがれ」を体現している言葉なのだろう。
一方、オトコの視点で見れば、「フェミニン → 儚げ、優しさ、甘さ」や「アンニュイ → 知的、ミステリアス、湿り気」という印象なのだから、やはり「グッとくる要素」がそこにはあるのだろう(どちらに重きを置くかは人それぞれだろうが)。

特に「アンニュイさ」というのはそれ単体では性を表さないが、圧倒的に女性を想起させる。軽いため息まで聞こえてきそうなほど、物憂い感じでカフェに佇む女性は、それだけで絵になりそうである。しかし、オトコが同じことをしても「あー、おとーさん仕事でお疲れね」くらいにしか受け取ってもらえない(きっと)。
ここには非常にわかりやすい「オトコの幻想」が働いているのだろう。「物思い → オトコのことを思っているのだろう → それがもしオレだったらなぁ... → そういえば昔の彼女どうしてるのかなぁ → ノスタルジーの頂へ」という具合である。彼女にしてみれば、その実「低血圧はツライわぁ」なのかもしれないし、「このあとケーキを食べるべきか、食べざるべきか」なのかもしれない。

「オトコはロマンチスト、オンナはリアリスト」とはよく言ったものだが、ノスタルジーと成功体験をほどよくブレンドしてポジティブな妄想へと昇華させる鮮やかな手法は、強烈にリアルなものを前にしてフリーズすることしかできないオトコの、先天的な防衛本能なのかもしれない。

もし街角で圧倒的にアンニュイなオトコを見かけたら、その裏にある要素が何なのかを想像してみよう。

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